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But doesn’t tell me about it until I wake up at about 1 in the morning and realize he’s gone. I know I’m not great, I don’t clean enough, and I told him that WAY before we moved in together.
It’s not a choice thing, it’s a “I have lupus, work a full-time job against my doctor’s wishes, and suffer from depression” thing. I’ve been reading through these articles- and as a man I actually think they’re very good and in a lot of cases as relevant to men as they are to women.
Every time I’m ready to break up, he’ll give me one decent day where he treats me like I kind-of matter. I want a relationship too and nowadays it’s just as likley that the woman will not want to “lose her freedom” as much as the man.
At this point, things are probably starting to get comfortable- you make plans regularly, you’re in contact more frequently, and a relationship seems just around the corner.
I don’t think it’s okay for a guy to say things like “i haven’t shut the door on us” or “I’m not done learning from you yet”. In general, looking at the problems of our life without the clouding lens of negative emotions often is 90% of the path to success.
I think that’s just evil and at least to myself it speaks volumes about how he thinks I’ll be sitting around waiting for him like he’s some Greek God and I’m a mere mortal with no other options. I am 35 yo dating the 40 yo successful guy, He’a a succesful Physician Assistant in SF, divorced and has 1 son.
the mistakes I made was I yelled at his Female assistant, when I drunk on my birthday. I didn’t remember any of the event cause I was so drunk, I only remembered that I vomit before I passed out.
The next morning he became cold and distance and kicked me out from the apartment we rented, his PA told me that he needs to go to Singapore to attend a meeting and I better leave cause they want to finish some work before going to the airport.If you start getting on his case (“Why didn’t you call? ”, etc.) he will feel trapped and suffocated and start pulling away.